Have you ever had a surprise party?
Or have someone give you some news that you never saw was coming? Such as, "We're moving." or "We're getting a puppy." or "I lost my job today."
I have had all of the scenarios happen to me. With each one comes a plethera of emotions, some good, some bad but most certainly always overwhelming. I think that is natural when you are dealing with the surprise of a possibly life-altering experience.
Now, imagine the rush of emotions when you find out you have a sibling that you otherwise had never known.
I was 29 when I found out that I have an older sister that lives in Florida and looks just like our father. Sorry, Kim, but if looks like a Keaton and talks like a Keaton, it must indeed be a Keaton. Truth's the truth. We may have been apart all our lives but we made up for within moments of my realization. The news came in the form of a message on MySpace. It said simply:
Or something to that effect. Honestly, I didn't think a whole lot about it. I immediately called Dad and gave him the number. He said he didn't know who that could be (Seriously, Dad? There goes your Dad of The Year award.). I was ready to hang up and get on with my day when he replied, "Oh, I know who that is. That's my daughter." Then all I heard after that was Charlie Brown's teacher talking, "Wah, Wah-Wah-Wah, Wah-Wah". My head was spinning, to say the least. It took all of about 30 seconds after Dad and I hung for me to decide that I would call her myself. It was one of the smartest decisions I'd ever made. There was lots of questions and tears but, I knew right away I had that warm, caring older sister I'd always wanted. We had an instant bond. I was not angry with my Dad for not telling us, I was only grateful. ANOTHER person in my life to share with, love with, laugh with, cry with(we're pretty good at this one), when I already have so many. How awesome is that?My name is Kim McLaughlin and I am looking for Kenneth Keaton. I found your name when looking for him. If you have any information and can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. My number is (___)___-____.
In the 13 months that have follwed Dec. 14th, 2008, we have talked almost daily via email, phone, and text. We've met in person for 5 wonderful, sweet days that I'll never, ever forget. My kids INSTANTLY fell in love, my husband think she's great and I love her kids dearly as my own. Kasi is more like a best friend or another sister. Triston is precious, wild, all boy, and super affectionate. Really, it couldn't have gone more smoothly in a Lifetime movie. Life is good. She's my sister and I am so blessed.
1 comment:
Other than looking just like Dad, I think this was right on the nose! Lol I am truely blessed to have you and yours in my life! Words cant possibly express how grateful I am to call you my sister! I love you
Kim
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